Please note: This necklace is Ready to Ship and will leave the studio in 3 - 5 business days. The chain is 30 inches in length. The chain length can not be changed. 

If you purchase this item with any other jewel, please be aware that our jewelry is handmade to order and takes approximately 6-8 weeks to create before shipping, meaning your Ready to Ship jewel will ship with the rest of your order. This cuts down on multiple shipping costs for you, and unnecessary waste for the environment.  

When I first began BloodMilk, it was born out of significant period of grief. A wholly unexpected grief that cleaved my life into a before and after. Previous to this time, I hadn’t truly considered the afterlife, I didn’t grow up with a familial belief or had a religious culture to lean into. This led me to a period of seeking, and I began to become obsessed with Victorian era practices of mourning as well as Spiritualism in tandem to making the first pieces of BloodMilk. I had always wanted to create mourning jewelry and while I always considered ( & still do ) everything I made to be just that, I still wanted to create pieces that used symbolism from that time period. It’s taken me 16 years, but these new jewels are born from that time of intense mourning, a grief that still swims within me like a piece of sea glass: worn smooth with time but still sharp enough to wound when the waves crash just right. Each one of these three new designs were created in collaboration with my husband Aaron Horkey and made in my studio by my team here in Philadelphia.

The weeping willow tree is perhaps one of the most common gravestone symbols from the 18th-19th centuries. Due to its long ‘weeping’ branches and the way rain runs off it leaves like tears, the willow tree has long been associated with mourning imagery. It was believed that willow trees would help share the burden of sadness while sitting beneath them, as they would cry along with you, or for you. Aside from being symbols of grief and sadness, they are also simultaneously symbols of resilience and rebirth, as they can endure having many of their branches cut off without causing mortal damage. Their branches can also bend without breaking, making them a symbol of resiliency in times of heartbreak, grief or other difficult periods of ones life. 

The urn doesn’t always appear alongside willow trees in mourning imagery, but here I’m suggesting specific remembrance: wear in honor of someone you’ve lost as a way to help you grieve, allowing the willow tree to assist you carrying your sadness. It can also be worn for the death of other things that can be stored in the ‘urn’, cremated to dust and in need of healing: the ending of a dream, the ending of a certain period of your life, the ending of a relationship, the wish for the ending of a part of you you’d like to change or let go of, the ending of a place you loved but no longer do, the ending of something or someone that’s no longer healthy for you but that still needs to be mourned …. We all experiences ‘deaths’ in our lives outside of mortal death, and these can all be honored and grieved, here, with the help of the resilient willow tree.

*Details* :

- Approximately 29 mm tall 

- Approximately 20 mm in width 

- Shown on Jess on an 18 inch chain paired with the large version on a 30 inch chain

- Seen on Miguel on a 20 inch chain

- Pendant, chain, jump rings, and clasp are all solid Sterling Silver hand oxidized to achieve our favorite shade of gloomy gray and then highlighted to reveal the bright luminous silver beneath

- Last photo shown with the larger version which can be found Here

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