IMPORTANT: Available for Purchase Friday December 5th at 3PM EST through Friday December 19th at 11:59PM EST

PLEASE NOTE : We are excited to extend a discounted price to our clients, this entire collection has been marked down 10%. 

When I first began BloodMilk, it was born out of significant period of grief. A wholly unexpected grief that cleaved my life into a before and after. Previous to this time, I hadn’t truly considered the afterlife, I didn’t grow up with a familial belief or had a religious culture to lean into. This led me to a period of seeking, and I began to become obsessed with Victorian era practices of mourning as well as Spiritualism in tandem to making the first pieces of BloodMilk. I had always wanted to create mourning jewelry and while I always considered ( & still do ) everything I made to be just that, I still wanted to create pieces that used symbolism from that time period. It’s taken me 16 years, but these new jewels are born from that time of intense mourning, a grief that still swims within me like a piece of sea glass: worn smooth with time but still sharp enough to wound when the waves crash just right. Each one of these three new designs were created in collaboration with my husband Aaron Horkey and made in my studio by my team here in Philadelphia.

Charon, the ferryman that carried the shades of the dead across the river Acheron ( in other tellings, the river Styx ) in the Underworld, required payment for the journey. Thusly, family members of the deceased would bury their dead with a coin to ensure Charon had his due. Placing a coin in the mouth of the dead was also thought to have acted as a seal for the soul, to protect it from returning. It was also believed to have acted as sustenance for the journey. Here, the bee coin, of which there is evidence of being used as one of Charon’s Obols, was thought to have provided a ‘sweet afterlife’ or to have ‘sweetened’ the journey through the Underworld. The bee coin found in grave goods was actually a thinner version of a coin used for currency, perhaps that of the coins from the city of Ephesus in tribute to the Goddess Artemis.

Bees were significant to the Greeks, they were a symbol of health, fertility, wisdom, power. They were also associated with healing, as their honey was used to treat wounds. Bees also created hives in caves, which associated them with liminal spaces, thought to be close to the entrances to the Underworld, linking them with chthonic deities. They were also considered to be messengers between the living and the dead, as well as between mortals and the divine.

As a jewel of mourning and remembrance, I’m suggesting honoring your grief with a touch of sweetness, which can mean: remembering a happy memory in a moment of intense sadness, or any other practice you may have that can be couple with the tactile nature of this coin pendant.

Outside of mourning practices, this jewel can be worn as a talisman for sweetness or to embody any of the symbols mentioned above.

*Details* :

- 19 mm tall 

- 19 mm wide

- Solid Sterling Silver  

- Both pendant and chain are hand oxidized to achieve our favorite shade of stormy gray and then highlighted to reveal the bright luminous silver beneath

- Shown on Jess on an 18 inch chain paired with the large version on a 30 inch chain

- Seen on Miguel on a 20 inch chain

- Last photo shown with the larger version which can be found Here

***IMPORTANT***

This jewel is handmade to order, just for you, with care and focus. Please allow approximately 6-8 weeks for creation before shipping.                   

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